Overall the book Honor Thy Children by Molly Fumia was great. There were points in this book that merely tugged at my bosom. For illustration when the Nakatani’s found out that their in-between boy Greg was shot and killed. There were besides points in this book that I felt if I had been in their place. I would be in a great trade of hurting and wretchedness and would non cognize how to work through all that had happened. I thought that Al and Jane were courageous parents to digest the deceases of their three boies. This book by far was the most interesting non-fiction book I have read. This book would travel the bosom of any individual that read it.
The best thing about this book by far is how the parents have persevered throughout all these events that has happened to their household. From the running off of Glen. the slaying of their boy Greg. the happening out that their boies Glen and Guy were homosexuals and their contraction of HIV. and besides the decease of them. They had to hold heavy Black Marias after all of this happened. and yet they still go through all the HIV candidacy to demo us how unsafe this disease is. A thing I did non wish about this book is that there were really small happy things that happened to this household.
I besides thought that it was difficult to maintain path of the Nakatani’s kids because all of their names were so similar. If I were to rate this book. I would give it an A++ because this is a really good book and shows that worlds have the will to force through any obstruction. Even though they have gone through all of that God did non give them a interruption and demo them mercy. Despite their difficult problems. they pushed through all the unhappiness and desperation and turned it around to assist other people non do the same errors as them.
This would decidedly be a book I would urge to people because there are really good life lessons in it. For case. there is a bound to strict parenting. taking your words right ( Greg ) . and when faced with the worst of state of affairss there is ever something you can make about it. It besides demonstrates that when a kid is is pain and deceasing. parents ever want to seek and assist to make what’s best for them. even at the disbursal of their ain ego. I think this book would be for ages 15 and up because there are things that would be difficult to understand for person of a immature age.
Besides I feel that the individual reading it should hold some regard for homosexuals. tribades. etc. otherwise reading this book would be pointless. The book and film were great to state the least. It taught me to accept who you are and that decease is non the terminal. Memories can transport on and learn others how to cover with the loss of your loved 1s. This book allowed me to take a glance into the Nakatani’s life and how they dealt with the loss and the heartache that followed. Honor Thy Children taught me that no affair what life throws at you there are ever ways to get the better of these challenges.
The thing I thought was most interesting was Guy will to travel out to talk even while confined to a wheelchair. He had the bravery to travel out in the province he was in and talk. The individual I identify most with in this narrative would be Greg. I identify with Greg the most because he was the in-between boy. a macho. talk his head sort of individual. The individual I would place least with would be Guy. I identify least with him because if I had gotten HIV and knew I was deceasing I would likely detest the universe and sequester myself and non truly seek to make anything.
This book did non truly impact my life because even though it was a great book. it did non truly use that much to my life. I think that. because I have non had something similar happen to me. I have no homosexual or sapphic friends and I besides do non cognize anyone with a serious disease. I think that the lone things that would use to me would be the Asian/Hawaiian civilization. the covering with the decease of a loved 1. and rearing. Their civilization is precisely similar mine because I am Nipponese and I was born and raised in Hawaii. In our civilization we are taught to esteem your seniors and listen to them.
I besides felt that the Nakatani’s dealt with the decease of their boies better than I would hold. When my brother and grandparents died I had a difficult clip and at some points I went through a period of depression that lasted a month in which I did non go to. It made me experience that I should hold been a better grandchild and brother because I caused them a batch of problem. The rearing portion got to me because I was lucky that my parents. who were slightly rigorous. were non every bit rigorous as the Nakatani’s. This helped me larn to appreciate my parents more.